It’s all over the news in
the New Year, flu season is in rare form and taking civilians down with a vengeance.  Just before the holidays, kids were dropping
like flies at my daughters’ school with a super bad case of the stomach flu
sending children home by the dozens!  Somehow
(and I’m knocking on wood as I speak) we managed to escape in perfect health
and are still going strong.  I am not
sure if it is the fact that we all got flu shots back in November (my ritual just
before Thanksgiving) or that I am a drill sergeant when we get home barking
orders to make sure my girls run to the bathroom to do a Silkwood scrub of
their hands with soap to remove any traces of germs from their day – but something
is clearly working (knocking on wood again).
I will admit though that
I am walking around with the equivalent of garlic and a cross around my neck (even
though I’m Jewish) trying to ward off the impending evil flu for the remaining
months where we are in potential danger.  Side note – garlic actually has
powerful anti-viral, antibiotic and anti-fungal properties that help boost the
immune system. 
I’m feeling quite productive
right now and really have no desire to be slowed down by illness that sentences
me or my family to the bed for days on end.  Here’s what I recommend not only as a responsible parent, but as a respectful citizen to help
minimize the spread of germs while maintaining my good manners.  
Symptoms & Signs. You’ve
seen the commercials, the close-ups on someone coughing, sniffling or sneezing.
We know when we begin to feel that tickle in our throats, the heaviness in our
eyes or a queasy belly that something most definitely is awry. Most of the
time, we ignore it and do our best to carry on and sometimes we are knocked
completely off our feet and forced to lay low.  The important thing is to
recognize our own bodies and know when we should stay home as opposed to going
out and infecting others.  This is a sign of respect and others will thank
us for it. 
Washing Hands. This
is the number one rule to protect us against the spread of germs and
infection.  Washing hands is also part of a proper hygiene routine. 
Adults and children alike must remember to wash their hands with soap and warm
water to protect themselves and maintain good health.  A good rule of
thumb is to wash hands after bathroom use, returning home at the end of the
day, before eating a meal and after shaking hands with someone who may be
sick.  Children should also get used to washing hands the moment they come
home from school. 
Boosting Immunity. 
Eating warm food on a cold day not only fuels the body, but feeds the
soul.  Adding preventative ingredients such as garlic, ginger and spice
into our diets not only helps with digestion, but also assists with staving off
colds and flu.  When we are feeling under the weather, a bowl of warm
oatmeal for breakfast and homemade chicken soup for lunch or dinner is best.
Liquids are also important for hydration and flushing out germs.  Drinking
a hot cup of chamomile or mint tea with honey or a glass of freshly squeezed
orange juice may be just what the doctor ordered.   
Dressing Warm.  I
absolutely love the cold weather and I am the first person to break out the
coats come Fall.  Although Southern California is warm by comparison to
other parts of the U.S., we still have a cold day or two and it is necessary to
know how to dress appropriately for the weather.  The key areas to keep
warm are the neck, head and feet.  No matter how cold you may be feeling,
if you put a scarf around your neck or a hat on your head, you will be just
fine.  As far as shoes go, I am a huge proponent of wearing cozy Uggs or
similar slippers around the house in the winter time rather than bare
feet.  It turns out that I may be on to something.  Apparently, there
is a connection between the walls of our nose and cold feet that actually
breaks down our defenses.  If we protect our feet and keep them warm,
we’re actually helping to fight off potential infection.  
Shaking Hands.  As
an etiquette instructor, handshaking is a must.  I can’t tell you how many
people I have come across who refuse to shake my hand due to illness. 
Would they refuse the President’s hand if he had a cold?  I think not! My
feeling is if you’re too sick to shake my hand hello, then you shouldn’t be
wandering out of the house in the first place.  It is plain rude!  To
bother to go out and socialize and then refuse to properly greet others is
awkward and insulting.  If you are too sick to shake hands, simply stay
home!  If you are the recipient of a handshake and worried about the
spread of germs, discretely head off to the restroom to give a good Silkwood
wash with soap and water.
Covering your Mouth.  Believe
it or not, sneezing and coughing without covering your mouth ranked as one of
the highest manners offenses.  Adults should know better, but how many
times have we yelled these words to our children just after they’ve let loose
and showered us with their germs.  They are constantly forgetting to cover
their mouths when they cough or they sneeze.  And where are the little
hankies or boxes of Kleenex around when you need one?  At school, children
are taught to sneeze into their elbow (a/k/a “the Dracula sneeze”) and at home
they are asked to use a tissue. Either way, the proper way to capture a sneeze
or cough is to turn your head towards your right shoulder away from others to
avoid spreading germs directly, or, if you are lucky enough to have advance
notice, carry tissues and use them when you feel a sneeze or cough coming on.
Finally, if you see a fellow sufferer let out a sneeze with no tissue in sight,
be polite and offer them a Kleenex, it might actually save you from getting
Acting Responsibly. As
adults we know there is never a good time to get sick.  With the pressures
of everyday life and a society that expects you to be available 24/7, getting
sick seems like a luxury not many of us can afford.  With children,
however, we have no choice but to stop and alter our plans. It is inevitable that
a child will come down with a cold or flu at the most inopportune time and as
parents it is our job to act responsibly and keep our children home, especially
with fever or a stomach virus.  It is wildly inappropriate to bring them
to school or schedule a play date unless they have had a minimum of 24-48 hours
symptom free.

Have you fallen prey to this terrible flu season?  Know anyone who was a carrier and showed up in public anyway?  What did you do, how did you handle it?  Share with us your flu war stories.  We’d love to hear them!